The Summer I Learned to Scream (Again)

 June's here and the cicadas are back — which means nature is screaming unapologetically again, and I love it.

I stepped outside this morning with my usual coffee and Clash tee, and the noise hit me like an old record I forgot I loved. All buzz, no pretense. It made me think: when did we stop screaming? When did we get polite about everything?

When I was sixteen, I found my voice in a basement show in someone’s rented house, sweat dripping from the ceiling, feedback bouncing off concrete walls. It wasn’t about sounding good — it was about sounding real. Somewhere between aging, parenting, and paying for things like plumbing repairs, I think I started muting myself a bit.

But summer always shakes that off. I feel the itch to turn the volume back up — not just musically, but in how I show up in the world. The punk in me isn’t dead. He just took a nap between orthodontist appointments and work emails.

So here's the vow for this summer: scream a little louder. Say the thing. Wear the patched jacket even if it’s hot. Play the song even if the neighbors don’t like it. Dance weirdly. Love

loudly. Punk never dies — it just needs the sun sometimes.

Now if you'll excuse me, I’ve got a Misfits patch to re-sew and a lawn I’m absolutely not mowing today.

Stay loud,
— Dad (still punk)

Punk’s Not Dead — It Just Has a Mortgage Now

 When I was a kid, I thought adults had it all wrong. Ties? Cubicles? Early bedtimes? No thanks. I swore I'd stay wild forever, sneer firmly in place, middle finger raised at anything that even smelled like "normal."

Fast forward a couple decades, and here I am — a little more creaky, a lot more caffeinated — but guess what? Still punk. Just with slightly better dental insurance.

Punk isn’t about age. It’s not about how many tattoos you can cram onto one bicep (though shoutout to anyone still adding to their sleeve at 50). Punk is about refusing to roll over and accept a life you don’t believe in. It’s about making noise, whether you’re thrashing in a garage band or just refusing to let life dull your sharp edges.

Sure, I yell at clouds now and think 9:30 PM is a wild bedtime. But I still crank The Clash at full volume. I still refuse to take crap from people who think “growing up” means giving up who you are. I still believe in loud music, cheap coffee, DIY everything, and giving the finger to conformity.

So if you’re reading this and wondering if you’re “too old” for punk — newsflash:
You’re not. You’re exactly what punk looks like now.
Wrinkles, gray hair, orthopedic sneakers and all. Own it.

Because at the end of the day:
Punk’s not just a sound. It’s a stubborn, glorious refusal.
And my dad (and probably yours) is still living proof.

Stay loud, stay weird,
- M.D.S.P.

Easter in the Wasteland (or: Resurrection Is Rebellion)

 Another Easter rolls around. The candy aisles are wiped out, plastic grass litters every living room, and pastel suits march their way into churches with polished smiles. It's the season of “rebirth,” they say—of resurrection and fresh starts. But for those of us still flying the black flag, still grinding chords in garage basements and marching in boots instead of pews, the question is this: What the hell does Easter mean to us?

Let’s be real—most of what passes for Easter these days is corporate camouflage. Hollow chocolate bunnies mass-produced by the same machine that crushes the working class Monday through Friday. Jesus gets wheeled out like a seasonal mascot, right next to the Easter Bunny, so corporations can sell you crosses and Cadbury in one tidy transaction.

But if you dig past the plastic, there’s something in the bones of this day that hits different when you’ve spent time living outside the margins. Resurrection? That’s rebellion in disguise. Rising from the ashes? That’s the anthem of every punk who’s ever been kicked down and gotten back up.

We don’t need a miracle from above—we make our own. Every time we patch up a busted amp, pick up a friend who’s struggling, feed our community when the state won’t, that’s resurrection. That’s punk.

Easter is about smashing the old order. Jesus flipped tables, remember? He challenged empire, sided with the poor, and paid the price for it. You don’t have to believe in divinity to see the punk in that story. He wasn't rolling with the Romans—he was calling out the hypocrites, the power-hungry, the ones using God as a bludgeon. Sound familiar?

So this Easter, light a candle or burn a flag. Paint eggs or paint a protest sign. Whatever you do, make it mean something. Celebrate the power of community, of resistance, of starting again in a world that constantly tries to break you.

Resurrection isn’t a Hallmark card. It’s showing up when the world says stay down. It’s screaming your truth into a mic that barely works. It’s loving fiercely in a system built to divide.

This Easter, let’s rise—not because tradition tells us to, but because we refuse to stay buried.

Stay loud. Stay free.
– Dad’s Still Punk

Flyin' The Flannel: A Look at the Roots and Influences of Grunge Music

 

Grunge. The word itself conjures images of flannel shirts, ripped jeans, and a generation grappling with disillusionment. It wasn't just a musical genre; it was a cultural reset. But where did this raw, angst-ridden sound originate? Let's explore the roots and influences that shaped this defining sound of the 90s.

From Punk Rock's DIY Ethos to Hardcore's Intensity

Grunge didn't materialize out of thin air. It was a product of punk rock's rebellious spirit and hardcore's visceral energy. Punk, with its DIY philosophy and anti-establishment stance, instilled in grunge a sense of independence and lyrical candor. Bands like The Ramones, with "Blitzkrieg Bop" and "I Wanna Be Sedated," and The Clash, tackling social issues head-on with "London Calling" and "Rock the Casbah," provided a blueprint for grunge's lyrical themes of alienation and frustration. The Buzzcocks, with melodic punk anthems like "Ever Fallen in Love (With Someone You Shouldn't've)" and "Harmony in My Head," also proved influential. The Minutemen, with their short, sharp bursts of punk energy in songs like "Corona" and "History Lesson Part II," and their offshoot fIREHOSE, blending funk, punk, and rock in tracks like "Brave New World" and "Chemical Wire," also contributed to the eclectic mix of influences that shaped grunge.

Hardcore, punk's faster and more aggressive offspring, injected a dose of intensity. Black Flag's raw aggression in "Rise Above" and "Nervous Breakdown" and Minor Threat's confrontational lyrics in "Straight Edge" and "Filler" influenced grunge's sonic force. This blend of punk's attitude and hardcore's intensity created a sound that was both introspective and explosive, a cathartic outlet for a generation.

Key Influences: The Songs That Shaped a Genre

While pinpointing specific songs is challenging, certain tracks capture the essence of what was to come. The Stooges' "Search and Destroy" and "I Wanna Be Your Dog," with their raw power and Iggy Pop's primal vocals, are clear precursors. Sonic Youth's "Teen Age Riot" and "Kool Thing," blending melody and dissonance, foreshadowed grunge's dynamic shifts. Hüsker Dü's "Nevermind" (the song, not the album) and "Makes No Sense," with their introspective lyrics and driving rhythm, hinted at the emotional depth that would become a grunge hallmark. "Kick Out the Jams" by the MC5 and "Sonic Reducer" by the Dead Boys offered a template for high-energy rock. Even the Pixies, with their quiet-loud dynamics in "Where is My Mind?" and "Monkey Gone to Heaven," played a crucial role.

The Seattle Sound: A Genre Emerges

In the late 1980s, a unique sound began to coalesce in the Pacific Northwest, particularly Seattle. Bands like Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, and Alice in Chains started gaining traction, fusing punk's energy with a newfound focus on songwriting and melody. This sound, dubbed "grunge," quickly spread globally, captivating a generation with its honesty and emotional resonance. Early Seattle bands like Green River ("This Town," "Swallow"), Mudhoney ("Touch Me I'm Sick," "Hate the Police"), and Melvins ("Hooch," "Night Goat") laid the groundwork for the "Seattle sound" and helped define the raw, unpolished aesthetic.

Key Grunge Songs: Anthems of a Generation

Nirvana's "Smells Like Teen Spirit" and "Come As You Are" became anthems, encapsulating youth angst and disillusionment. Pearl Jam's "Jeremy" and "Alive" tackled social issues with raw emotion, while Soundgarden's "Black Hole Sun" and "Spoonman" showcased musical complexity. Alice in Chains' "Man in the Box" and "Rooster" explored addiction and isolation, and Mudhoney's "Touch Me I'm Sick" and "In 'n Out of Grace" captured the raw energy of the early scene. Temple of the Dog's "Hunger Strike" and "Say Hello 2 Heaven," featuring Chris Cornell and Eddie Vedder, became powerful and enduring tracks. Stone Temple Pilots, while often debated as strictly "grunge," contributed significantly with "Plush" and "Creep," as well as "Vasoline" and "Interstate Love Song."

Canadian Content: The Great White North's Contribution

While Seattle was the epicenter, Canada had its own vibrant scene. Sloan, with their blend of power pop and grunge influences, contributed tracks like "Under the Bridge" and "The Good in Everyone," as well as "The Other Man" and "Money City Maniacs." Jale, fronted by the powerful voice of Jennifer Hutt, delivered a raw and emotional take on grunge with songs like "I Cry" and "Centipede," along with "Scrapbook" and "Blow." These bands helped broaden grunge's reach and solidified its place in the global music landscape, demonstrating that the angst and introspection resonated far beyond Seattle.

The Legacy of Grunge: A Lasting Impact

Although the grunge movement waned in the mid-90s, its impact remains undeniable. Grunge popularized alternative rock and paved the way for future generations of musicians. Its emphasis on lyrical honesty and emotional vulnerability continues to resonate. Its fashion, with its flannel shirts and anti-fashion aesthetic, has become iconic.

Grunge was more than just music; it was a cultural phenomenon that captured the spirit of a generation. It was a raw, honest, and sometimes uncomfortable reflection of the world. Its legacy continues to inspire and influence artists and listeners alike.

Early Punk and Hardcore Influences:

• The Ramones - "Blitzkrieg Bop," "I Wanna Be Sedated"
• The Clash - "London Calling," "Rock the Casbah"
• Buzzcocks - "Ever Fallen in Love (With Someone You Shouldn't've)," "Harmony in My Head"
• Minutemen - "Corona," "History Lesson Part II"
• fIREHOSE - "Brave New World," "Chemical Wire"
• Black Flag - "Rise Above," "Nervous Breakdown"
• Minor Threat - "Straight Edge," "Filler"
• The Stooges - "Search and Destroy," "I Wanna Be Your Dog"
• Sonic Youth - "Teen Age Riot," "Kool Thing"
• Hüsker Dü - "Nevermind," "Makes No Sense"
• MC5 - "Kick Out the Jams"
• The Dead Boys - "Sonic Reducer"
• Pixies - "Where is My Mind?," "Monkey Gone to Heaven"

Early Grunge/Seattle Sound:

• Green River - "This Town," "Swallow"
• Mudhoney - "Touch Me I'm Sick," "Hate the Police"
• Melvins - "Hooch," "Night Goat"

Key Grunge Songs (and related bands):

• Nirvana - "Smells Like Teen Spirit," "Come As You Are"
• Pearl Jam - "Jeremy," "Alive"
• Soundgarden - "Black Hole Sun," "Spoonman"
• Alice in Chains - "Man in the Box," "Rooster"
• Temple of the Dog - "Hunger Strike," "Say Hello 2 Heaven"
• Stone Temple Pilots - "Plush," "Creep," "Vasoline," "Interstate Love Song"

Canadian Content:

• Sloan - "Under the Bridge," "The Good in Everyone," "The Other Man," "Money City Maniacs"
• Jale - "I Cry," "Centipede," "Scrapbook," "Blow"

This list provides a solid foundation for exploring the roots and influences of grunge, as well as some of the key songs that defined the genre. It's not exhaustive, of course, but it represents many of the most important artists and tracks discussed in the article.

Farewell to the Rhythm: Remembering Talking Heads' Final Bow at Sweetwaters

 

Farewell to the Rhythm: Remembering Talking Heads' Final Bow at Sweetwaters

Christchurch, New Zealand. A city known for its resilience, its gardens, and, for a brief, shining moment in 1991, the site of Talking Heads' last ever concert. Forget the urban sprawl of Forest Hills; this farewell was under the vast Kiwi sky, at the Sweetwaters South Festival. While "Stop Making Sense" immortalized a previous show, this was the final curtain call.

It's a detail often overlooked in the narrative of Talking Heads' fragmented end. We remember the film, the tension, the almost-breakup. But the actual, final note? That echoed across the fields of Christchurch. This wasn't a meticulously crafted farewell tour, no grand pronouncements. It was, in true Talking Heads fashion, a bit understated, a bit ambiguous. They played, they captivated, and then… they were gone.

Imagine the scene: a sprawling festival crowd, the energy palpable. Talking Heads, already legends, took the stage. While details of the exact setlist can be debated (setlists weren't as readily available then as they are now), it's safe to assume it was a potent mix of classics. "Psycho Killer," "Burning Down the House," "Once in a Lifetime" – these anthems of nervous energy and rhythmic brilliance surely resonated with the Kiwi crowd.

What makes this final show so fascinating is its almost accidental nature. There was no press release announcing it as their last. No tearful goodbyes. They simply played, and then, quietly, the Talking Heads chapter closed. It adds a layer of mystique to the performance. Was there an unspoken understanding amongst the band members? Did the Christchurch crowd sense they were witnessing something special? We'll likely never know.

This lack of fanfare, this quiet exit, feels strangely fitting for Talking Heads. They were always a band that defied expectations, that danced on the fringes of convention. Their music was cerebral yet danceable, complex yet accessible. Their end, it seems, mirrored their career – unconventional and enigmatic.

The Sweetwaters South Festival performance wasn't captured on film like "Stop Making Sense," which adds to its mystique. It exists primarily in the memories of those who were there, a shared experience, a whispered legend. Perhaps a grainy bootleg or two circulates amongst collectors, but the definitive record of this historic moment remains elusive.

While we mourn the absence of more Talking Heads music, we can also appreciate the beauty of this understated farewell. They left us with a legacy of innovation, a catalogue of timeless songs, and a final performance that, in its quiet way, speaks volumes. The echoes of their unique sound may have faded from the Christchurch fields, but they continue to resonate in the hearts of fans worldwide. The final note may have been played at Sweetwaters, but the music, thankfully, plays on.

Punk Rock Parenting: Starting 2025 with a Rebel Yell

Punk Rock Parenting: Starting 2025 with a Rebel Yell

Hey Rockin’ Moms and Dads! 🎸

The new year is here, and while the world’s out there making resolutions about kale smoothies and 5 a.m. workouts, we’re over here teaching our kids the lyrics to The Clash. Parenting with a punk rock heart means embracing the chaos, celebrating individuality, and showing your little ones how to live life on their own terms.

What Does It Mean to Be a Punk Rock Parent?
It’s not about having green hair (although, bonus points if you do). It’s about raising free-thinking, confident kids who question the status quo and march to the beat of their own drums—sometimes literally.

Here’s how you can start the year off right as a punk rock parent:

1. Teach Them the Classics

Forget nursery rhymes. Your kiddos should know their Ramones from their Sex Pistols. Blast your favorite tracks, explain the stories behind the music, and let them fall in love with the raw energy of punk.

2. Encourage Creativity

Paint, draw, write, sing, build—whatever gets their creative juices flowing. Punk rock is all about expression, and there’s no better way to teach that than letting your kids create without judgment. Bonus: There’s no such thing as too much glitter or too many safety pins.

3. Lead by Example

Kids learn by watching, and what better lesson to teach them than to stand up for what’s right? Show them that it’s okay to speak out, to be different, and to chase what they’re passionate about—whether it’s art, music, or creating a better world.

4. Rock the Gear

Let’s be real—half of the fun is looking the part. Start the year with matching punk-inspired tees, cozy sweatshirts, or even mugs for your morning chaos juice (aka coffee). And yes, we’ve got gear for the whole family.

5. Celebrate the Imperfections

Parenting is messy. So is punk rock. Embrace the tantrums, the noise, and the spills as part of the journey. Nobody’s perfect, and that’s what makes life beautiful.

2025: A Year for Loud Love and Loud Music
This year, let’s raise our kids to be compassionate rebels—kind, fearless, and ready to take on the world. Whether you’re taking them to their first concert, teaching them the perfect air guitar stance, or just surviving another chaotic school morning, remember: You’re doing it your way, and that’s what matters.

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So here’s to you, punk rock parents. Keep it loud. Keep it real. And keep raising the next generation of rebels.